Great people are great not because they are rich, successful, or strong but they have great values and great ethics within them.. 😊
But the humour is we all run behind success and money with no humanity and values left within us and almost forget that only a man with values will be remembered forever... 💰
The knowledge that we have gained is never put to use..
We all diminish our value by expressing ourselves through behaviours that hurt others... 😔
We all come into this world empty handed..👐
But before leaving this world we must fill and shape ourselves with moral values.. 😊
Our own value will be determined by what we are filling in our empty heart.. 🧡
Good or bad.. Its up to us what we choose...
Everything in our life is a matter of our own choice..
Its what we choose from our life will determine what we become and where we reach in our life.. 🛤
-Here is a short story to make you understand our value can't be diminished even if we are put into harsh circumstances in our life by our own choices or by others..
*A well known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a Rs.2000 note.💰
He asked, “Who would like this Rs.2000 note?”
Hands started going up.
He said, “I am going to give this Rs.2000 to one of you but first, let me do this.” He proceeded to crumple the note with his hand. ✊
He then asked, “Who still wants it?”
Still the hands were up in the air.
“Well,” he replied, “What if I do this?” And he dropped the note on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe. 👞
He picked it up, now all crumpled and dirty. “Now who still wants it?” Still the hands went into the air.
“My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson.
No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth Rs.2000..
Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way.
We feel as though we are worthless. 😔
But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value. You are special – Don’t ever forget it!* :)
Ofcourse we all are social animal and we all need each others help to live in a society...
But society is one of the biggest complication which we need to tackle with..
Sometimes people are very aggressive, they may say something which may hurt your feelings, may insult you,etc..
Now the question is how you need to revert back if you are correct and on the right path in such complicated situations without losing cool & without hurting others....????
Here are some ways to tackle such situations and never get hurt and do remember that your value cannot be determined by others....
1. Stay calm 🙂
2. Have Patience 😌
3 silence is the best answer 🤫
4 Respect yourself 😊
5. Avoid anger 😡
6. Speak and try to sort out.. 😎
Your value doesn't decrease based in someone's inability to see your worth..
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Very true.. :)
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ReplyDeleteTrue, in this current scenario to remain calm and be patient is very necessary
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